OPEN MINDED

 OPEN MINDED

BY : FEBRIAN CUBRA

Open minded is one  of the human personality. It’s can include some good and bad effect. Actually,  Openminded can help people in resolving the problem. Whith open minded we can share whith friends, so we can enjoy the problems with it. But in other side open minded also give some bad effect to each people. Such as by open minded someone talk the bad of someone to others. It’s will outcome something bad in relationship. In the al-qur’an Allah said  : 

Mock, ridicule other people, some people gossip about his brother with the mock, ridicule. The unlawful act. Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala says: "Let not a people deride the other, maybe they (who mocked) it's better than them." (QS.Al Hujurat 49: 11)

From the ayat of al-qur’an above, we can take that don’t ever talk the bad of someone. Because someone who we talk can be more better than us. It’s fine if we be open minded, but don’t do it over !!!. as we know something that we do with word “over” will be outcomes something bad.

In this life, we need some one who open minded. Not only our self but also all of people. If someone has personality that open minded we can know, when he got some problems, when he sad and so many else, because he/she will talk it. So we can help him and make our relationship better. Especially for our self when we got some prolems, like I talk above we can sharing with our friends when we got some problems, and also we aks our firend if we need some helps. However, it’s depend on us, sometime open minded gave positive effect but sometime it gave negative effect.

So, we the explanation above we can conglude that open minded is kind of personality that can give positive effect and also negative effect.

OPEN MINDED

OPEN MINDED
BY : FEBRIAN CUBRA

Open minded is one  of the human personality. It’s can include some good and bad effect. Actually,  Openminded can help people in resolving the problem. Whith open minded we can share whith friends, so we can enjoy the problems with it. But in other side open minded also give some bad effect to each people. Such as by open minded someone talk the bad of someone to others. It’s will outcome something bad in relationship. In the al-qur’an Allah said  : 

Mock, ridicule other people, some people gossip about his brother with the mock, ridicule. The unlawful act. Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala says: "Let not a people deride the other, maybe they (who mocked) it's better than them." (QS.Al Hujurat 49: 11)

From the ayat of al-qur’an above, we can take that don’t ever talk the bad of someone. Because someone who we talk can be more better than us. It’s fine if we be open minded, but don’t do it over !!!. as we know something that we do with word “over” will be outcomes something bad.

In this life, we need some one who open minded. Not only our self but also all of people. If someone has personality that open minded we can know, when he got some problems, when he sad and so many else, because he/she will talk it. So we can help him and make our relationship better. Especially for our self when we got some prolems, like I talk above we can sharing with our friends when we got some problems, and also we aks our firend if we need some helps. However, it’s depend on us, sometime open minded gave positive effect but sometime it gave negative effect.

So, we the explanation above we can conglude that open minded is kind of personality that can give positive effect and also negative effect.

Adoring Child

Adoring Child
by : Kadry Bonjoly

Adoring child is an attitude that parents always give anything what their child wants , and never think what the effect because of that. For example , a father do not give permissionto his son to go , then it makes the children cry or whine with it , that is allowed to go . To stop the children crying , a father relented and let his son to go. The behavior like that referred to adoring child , and parent attitudes inconsistent with the order only for make their children donot cry or whine including attitude adoring child. In islam we know that, every parents have to give attention to their child, but don’t ever do it over !!. because  something that we do with word “over” will be outcomes something bad. Talk about adoring child, Rasulullah SAW ever said :

"Send your children to pray at the time she was seven years old, and beat them when they was ten and separate bed  between them (it’s mean between boys and girls)". (HR. Abu Daud).

From the hadits above we know that a parents can not adore their child. Adoring child same with kill personality each child, as we know because of it, a child can be a lazy one, who do not understand to do something. 

Attitude we've shown it appears profitable for the child until the child would continue to repeat the behavior. Someday when they expects something from her parents , they will cry , because crying regarded as a powerful tool to obtain what he/she wants . it happens ussually on parents who has child one or two only. So, if we compare with another parents who has many child, they tend avoid adoring child. Actually every parents has different way to show their love for her/his child. But sometime some parent choosed a wrong way with adoring child. As we know it’s not good for children’s life.

From the explanation above we Can conclude that adoring child is a child whose life was spoiled always depend on others, because a love that given by parents  was too great , so that love becomes excessive the effect. The more a parent adore they child, the more the child got bad effect.

BUSY FAMILY

BUSY FAMILY

by : Chandra Yuliasman

            In todays competitive world, it’s very easy to find a family that both parent to go out to work. Either father or mother go to work and children busy with their own activities. This phenomenome become trend in whole world. Some of the family may tend to achieve high economic level or may it’s the necessity in the family for their live. In a side its goog for nowadays competitive world, but it’s still good in the family relationship?

            In busy family, we definetely can see that every member of the family buy with their own activities. We can also definetely say that they will get lack of interaction. Lack of o\interaction in family is so dangerous. It will cause many bad effects such as child being out of control, divorce, or maybe marriage become useless.

            This busy family facts can we see around us. Maybe the family will get rich but thy are poor in love. The family may be broke. In conclusion, busy family is bad for family life.

The Advantage and Disadvantage of Parents without Child

The Advantage and Disadvantage of Parents without Child
by : Mia Neswati

            Family includes father, mother and child that are loveliness, belongingness, and happiness fully. The members of families, they share ideas or everything each other. Nowadays,  few of parents in the world especially in Indonesia. They don’t have a child. It causes of some factors, as such as they use birth control, use sterile or the parents don’t want to have a child. The phenomenon like this , there have advantages and disadvantages of parents without child. Let’s we tell about advantage and disadvantage of parents without child.

            First, advantages of parents without child. Parents can focus on their works. Without child, they can finish their work especially for workaholics man. They are free from child to do their in the office. Second, parents don’t need pay too much of their life. If they have a child, they think and spend much money to education their child.

            Besides the advantages, there are some disadvantages of parents without child. One of them, parents feel unhappy without child. They feel lonely and don’t get a perfect family. Because a child can make parents are happy in their life.

            In conclusion, parents without child have advantages and disadvantages. Parents can do everything their works in the office or at home. However, parents feel unhappy or sad without having a child.