Adoring Child

Adoring Child
by : Kadry Bonjoly

Adoring child is an attitude that parents always give anything what their child wants , cancel an order , instruction or rejection simply because the child scream , fight / argue. For example , a father forbids his son to go , then it makes the children cry or whine with it , that is allowed to go . To stop the children crying , a father relented and let his son to go. Thebehavior like that referred to adoring child , and parent attitudes inconsistent with the order only for make their children donot cry or whine including attitude adoring child.

Attitude we've shown it appears profitable for the child until the child would continue to repeat the behavior . someday when it expects something from her parents , she will cry , because crying regarded as a powerful tool to obtain what he/she wants . it happens ussually on parents who has child one or two only. So, if we compare with another parents who has many child, they tend avoid adoring child. Actually every parents has different way to show their love for her/his child. But sometime some parent choosed a wrong way with adoring child. As we know it’s not good for children’s life.

From teh explanation above we Can conclude that adoring child is a child whose life was spoiled always depend on others, because a love that given by parents  was too great , so that love becomes excessive the effect, many children claim something about what he wants and when they wants not satisfied, the child will be cry.